summer-2025

Conflict Resolution Noah Lee

Head What it is

Heart Why we do it

Hands How we do it

head, heart, hands, aligns with the gospel waltz

  1. Head: Peacekeeping vs Peacemaking

“Conflict resolution is the process of settling a disagreement or dispute between two or more parties by finding a mutually acceptable solution.”

“Gospel-centered conflict resolution is the process of resolving disagreements and disputes that is rooted in the Gospel. It emphasizes applying the grace and forgiveness of the Gospel to interpersonal conflicts, seeking reconciliation and unity rather than retribution or escalation.”

The peacekeeper is someone who tries to avoid constructive conflict by withdrawing or attacking, and often ends up in deeper conflict.”

The peacemaker takes into account that life always involves struggle, and that at the heart of this conflict is a ‘love offensive’ in relationship to others.

  1. Heart: The Prince of Peace

Isaiah 9:6

Romans 5:1

John 16:33

Psalm 34:14

Romans 12:18

  1. Hands: How to Be a Peacemaker

You <-> God

Confront the feeling Confess the sin Communicate the hope Connect with God

You <-> Other Person

Confront the person Confess the sin Communicate the expectation Connect in the relationship

Colossians 3:12-14